They Brush Off Your Questions
Remember when your partner used to hang on to your every word? Now, it’s like your questions go in one ear and out the other. If you ask about their day or something specific like why they were late getting home and they shrug it off or change the subject, that’s a warning sign.
I had a friend who noticed her husband would always “forget” to answer when she asked about his late nights at work. It wasn’t until they talked it out that she realized he was stressed about a job change and didn’t know how to tell her. If your partner’s dodging your questions, it might not be cheating or anything dramatic it could just be stress or shame but it’s worth digging deeper.
They Laugh Off Serious Conversations
Okay, I get it sometimes a little humor can lighten the mood. But if your partner’s constantly joking or laughing when you try to have a serious talk, it’s a red flag. I’ve been there, trying to bring up something important, like where our relationship was heading, only to get a goofy grin and a “You worry too much!” It’s frustrating, right? That laughter might be their way of deflecting something they don’t want to face. Maybe they’re avoiding a tough truth or just don’t want to deal with the emotions. Either way, it’s not a sign of a healthy, open relationship. Try calling it out gently sometimes they don’t even realize they’re doing it.
They’re Suddenly Too Busy for You
Life gets hectic, no doubt. Between work, errands, and doomscrolling on our phones, time slips away. But if your partner’s suddenly too busy to hang out, talk, or even text back, that’s a problem. I remember when my ex started claiming he was “swamped” every weekend, but I’d see him posting at bars with friends. Ouch. If your partner’s always got an excuse to avoid quality time, it could mean they’re pulling away emotionally or hiding something they don’t want you to know. A healthy relationship needs time and effort, so don’t let “I’m busy” become a permanent dodge.
They Make Plans Without You
This one stings. If your partner’s suddenly planning trips, outings, or even small get-togethers without looping you in, it’s a sign something’s off. I’m not talking about them needing solo time everyone does but if they’re consistently leaving you out and getting cagey when you ask about it, that’s not cool. I had a coworker whose boyfriend started going to “work dinners” every week, but when she asked who was there, he’d mumble and change the topic. Turned out, he was venting to friends about their relationship instead of talking to her. If your partner’s making plans without you and dodging questions, it’s time to sit them down and get real.
What to Do If You Spot These Signs
If any of these hit home, don’t panic. Relationships go through rough patches, and sometimes these behaviors come from stress, fear, or just bad communication habits. The key is to talk really talk. Pick a calm moment, maybe over coffee or a walk, and share how you’re feeling without accusing them. Say something like, “I’ve noticed you’ve been super busy lately, and I miss us connecting. Is everything okay?” It opens the door without putting them on the defensive. And if they’re still dodging? That’s when you might need to dig deeper or even consider counseling. You deserve a relationship where you’re both on the same page.
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